sbst275 SG But as Rhon has said, they are factors that cannot be controlled, like the couple's sudden spark! Wahahahaha...
Rhonda SG It's not just the $$... it's the time and energy and effort it takes to raise a kid. Remember, it takes a village to raise a child, but these days, it's hard to get the kind of help you do need in raising a kid! And if the parents don't earn enough for one to stay home to look after the child full-time, it kinds of defeats the purpose, right? I find it ridiculous that I have colleagues who plan for babies, then leave them in their home countries with their parents or in-laws and they only get to see their babies once a year! I mean, that's crazy!!
sbst275 SG Well, for me, I dun have these prob so far... But I think having more kids like say 4, the kids grow up better... ... Once a year?
Rhonda SG Wei!! Don't have to work one, ah? What do you think we are... pet hamsters / rabbits ah? ANd ah... how come not a peep from you until the topic is about sex, ah?? You, ah! Really mo dak gao!
av98m SG You've hit the nail on the head! And this is exactly why there're so many ill-bred brats! Their parents are too busy working and too tired after work to raise them properly!! Either the wife or husband has to stay at home and be a full time parent.
sbst275 SG ... Even me as a guy, I do try to restrain myself, until she... Ahahahah ... Deathy, yes sex is beautiful, but pls, you often relate it to dating!
The man who was death SG do it before going to work then lunch time do then go home do lor where got take up work hr?? i peep long time ago liao, u neva see me sing that love song meh??
Rhonda SG Oh, definitely!! Otherwise, don't have a kid!! One of my ex-colleagues tried years to have a baby. They used up a lot of their savings on in-vitro fertilisation procedures. FINALLY, after a long excruciating and expensive wait, they have a baby son! And then... ... she lets a nanny take care of her baby son and cause she lives on the other end of the island, she only brings her baby son home on Friday evenings after work and have him for the weekend then on Monday mornings, he's left back at the nanny's!!! I was thinking, ''What the hell?!!! Then why in the world did you even try that hard for a baby?!!!!''
sbst275 SG I see most guys here ends up disciplined as of NS... No wonder Malaysia is so determined to introduce NS for their ppl, though it is just a 3 mth stinct... They actually seek SG help onto planning it
